You’ve heard this expression many times before but in owning your own business, this may be the difference between success and failure. There’s always something to do, tasks unfinished, deadlines to be met and opportunities for improvement everywhere. And as a trainer, I’m often guilty of pointing those areas out. However, sometimes we’re so busy in our lives that we forget to have one! 

At our corporate HQ at Buffini & Company, we have this beautiful 87,000 sq. ft. building which sits atop the famous Carlsbad Flower Fields – a spectacular display of nature’s repertoire of colors with row upon row of red, yellow, orange and white tulips. As you stand there taking in the view of the fields, your sprits are lifted by the additional backdrop of the Pacific Ocean and buoyed by its fresh breezes.  

As fantastic as that sounds, I had a conversation with a staff member the other day who in the four years we’ve been at this location has never once taken the thirty yard walk across the street to take it in. “I’m just so busy and I have so much to do.” As his boss, I’m glad he’s working hard, but I know one simple truth: by May 1^st, the tulips are gone and his opportunity of seeing them again won’t come for another ten months.  

There are seasons for everything in life – whether it is kids’ or grandkids’ ballgames, weekend trips, vacations or just five minutes to take a break and smell the tulips. 

It’s a good life! 

Brian

The three opportunities in today’s market are first-time buyers, move-up clients and investors: 

• First-time buyers. Many people have a desire to buy a home almost as a rite of passage or that fulfilling sensation of having a place to call your own. No matter what the market conditions, first-time buyers are always going to try to break in to home ownership.

• Move-up clients own a house but it either doesn’t fulfill their current needs, or it’s not the house or neighborhood they want.

• Investors who are looking for a long-term play in real estate are enthusiastically looking for properties right now because it has a built-in discount and an investor who’s smart enough to hold onto a property will have a nice piece of built-in equity.

My hope for people in the real estate community is not only will they help their clients skillfully through the transaction process, but they ultimately get to participate in real estate as an investor themselves. Become your own best client…and your fortune is assured. 

It’s a good life! 

Brian 

Recently at a Turning Point, one of our cameramen, Mario, gave me a couple of containers of his home-made honey. He gave me a colorful description of how his bees fly miles and miles every day, flower to flower, to gather the pollen…how they bring it back into the hive, and then the extraordinary process of how their labor over time yields one of nature’s greatest foods. For the size of the bee and the amount of work, it’d be the equivalent of running a marathon every day and then lifting weights for six hours. 

Thank God we don’t have to work that hard to provide for our families! But this noble insect is a role model for work ethic. It’s time to bee busy so you can bring the money home to your honeys. 

It’s a good life! 

Brian

That was the phrase I heard most growing up as a child. My mother was consistent and relentless in encouraging me to believe in myself. As a young boy, I was very small and slight for my age. (I’ve filled out nicely in recent years!) I was also put into school early and I was typically a year and half to two years younger than my classmates. My mother didn’t want me to know I was small or young or had any other potential shortcomings or excuses. She just consistently championed me to believe in myself.

A funny thing happened. I guess it worked! I can never remember a time when I didn’t believe in myself. In fact not having many pictures of my youth, I don’t ever remember being small or thinking of myself as small. Today, one of my youngest children is very small and slight, but I’ve kept up my mother’s winning ways by telling him he’s unstoppable and there’s nothing he can’t do. At every turn, his stature is an advantage to him. When he plays basketball, we remind him of the diminutive Spud Webb who at five foot seven was an all-star in the NBA.

Maybe you didn’t have a cheerleader growing up, but there’s nothing to say you can’t be your own cheerleader today. Not only that, but I have found it even more empowering to become other peoples’ cheerleaders. A word of encouragement spoken at the right time can be life-changing for someone.

The words we say to ourselves and others can make all the difference in the world. Make sure you’re building up; not tearing down, encouraging; not discouraging, strengthening belief and not causing doubt. You can do it…

It’s a good life!

Brian